In the Soup

Happy Sunday, dear readers – the last Sunday in August! September and fall are around the corner.

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With summer’s close comes the continuing harvest and a flood of produce. My farmer’s market basket this week held eight glorious, deep green poblano peppers, as well as full bags of luscious nectarines and apples. The colors alone make me swoon. And when I’m done admiring them, I will have to quickly find ways to use this bounty.

We are blessed with bounty in the US. Sometimes, over-blessed. I’ve read several items in the last few months about the paradox of food waste in a country where too many people still go hungry. Some estimates suggest that as much as 40% of available food may go to waste for one reason or another. That’ll rock you back on your heels. If I buy ten meals only to throw out four of them while someone in my community is going hungry … Well. That thought feels completely horrible.

There are good people doing something about it. Food pantries and feeding kitchens do a lot. And, in keeping with my current search for “Yes, and” news, I discovered that there is a place in Cincinnati doing even more. I found out about La Soupe in a feature story in Fast Company (a business magazine I absolutely love for its vibrant support of entrepreneurs and thoughtful ideas). At La Soupe, they collect produce from local supermarkets and restaurants that is about to be discarded and turn it into amazing seasonal soups that can be frozen and then distributed to those in need all through the area. The portion of the food that comes in that truly cannot be used for human consumption is turned over to farms for animal feed. This is just brilliant. It takes a problem and turns it into a product that gives food to the hungry, sends less to landfills, and creates a new food ecosystem in the community.

Here is a link to the Fast Company feature: Big Batches of Soup

And a link to La Soupe’s website: La Soupe

It makes my heart happy to share their story and their good work. And it inspires to me think about the ways I can make a difference.

Hoping you are blessed with bounty.

Yes, And…

Yes, dear friends. It’s been a hard couple weeks. The news seems to come on black wings, worries sprouting like weeds, covering up optimism like kudzu on an old barn. It may look green, but if you have to chop that stuff down – NOT. PRETTY.

There’s been a lot of “Not Pretty” going around. More than enough.

So, where do I go from there? You can’t change the news – opinion may be open to alteration, but facts aren’t. I can try to ignore the huge hurricane boiling up off the Texas coast, but that won’t change its course or its impact. The rain and wind are going to hit, whether or not I am pleased by it. [And if you’re in the path – wishing you safe and well.]

Yes AndThere’s a phrase I recently learned from some reading I’m doing for my work, “Yes, and…” It’s a phrase used in improv to keep the scene moving when the dialog goes from one actor to another. In the last few days I’ve been wondering, can we use it to maintain a conversation in real life. Even in hard conversations about the things that can divide us. “I am worried that if we develop that wild area, we will lose something irreplaceable.” “Yes, and I’m worried that if we don’t have new sources of revenue, I will lose my job.”

“Yes, and” is inclusive. It says “Yes” – I hear you. I acknowledge you. I acknowledge your words. It also says “And” – in addition to your thought – not in spite of, not in opposition to, not because I get to decide that you’re wrong  – here is what I am thinking.

“Yes, and” says that we both have a stake and we’re coming to the table together. Wouldn’t that be awesome?

Here’s a “Yes, and” story that warmed my heart in the last week: There’s a new solar power company in Washington, DC., that is training young workers to install solar panels by having them work to install them on the homes of low-income seniors. The effort is described in a Washington Post story.  It’s the quintessential “Yes, and” moment. They’re installing solar panels, which capture clean energy. Yes, and providing new workers with skills that will be needed. Yes, and the panels are going on the homes of elderly people who live on fixed incomes and worry about being able to pay bills and keep warm. So their bills will be much less. And they meet the young people who are changing their community. Win. Win. Win. Win. How freakin’ cool.

Yes, and  – I will take some more of that!


Stay tuned for more on the Here’s a Quarter blog next week! As always, your thoughts and comments are always welcome – they are moderated (I know – adulting again), so they may take a little while to appear, but I read them all and appreciate that you were here. Thank you!

My new story collection is now available: Dog Days . I’d love to hear your thoughts if you check it out!

Words fail

Dear readers,

Perhaps, like me, you were struck speechless by the disturbing events in Charlottesville last weekend. A graceful college campus was defiled by racist posturing and violence, and we all mourn the death of a woman simply standing on a sidewalk in peaceful opposition to hate. Heather Heyer, now of blessed memory. Speak her name. The person who killed her will not be remembered on these pages.

I have no idea what goes through the mind of a person that brings them to hate so much that they believe entire sectors of humanity should lose their rights and their lives for having a different color skin, or a different name for their God. (Like – seriously, dudes – WTF? That’s nuts.)

A truly loving person would be concerned about these misguided souls and wonder how to bring them back to the fold. That’s not me. I don’t wish ill upon persons. But I don’t want those persons near me or those I love. My great grandfather was a shop owner and a rabbi. He and his family came to Denver in the early 1900s, where they raised their children. He and my great grandmother died before I was born; I was named for her. My only relics are a couple grainy old photos, including one of him in his vestments, with a long beard. I remember the pure electric jolt of standing on a staircase in the Holocaust Museum, staring at a wall of pictures, seeing one of a rabbi so similar it could have been his twin. People like me died because other people wanted to exterminate those who worshipped differently. The viciousness of that still stuns me. Seeing it resurrected on a college campus and in public discourse is beyond disgusting.

I don’t know that there is an answer for it, other than acting in gentle opposition where possible, and fierce opposition where necessary. Stand up. Speak out. Work together. I have seen some very clever responses: there is a town in Germany where residents use a yearly march commemorating a Nazi leader as fundraiser for fighting nazi-ism. They track how far the goose-steppers march and donate per step. They even put out tables of bananas and mark it on the sidewalks so the marchers see how much they’re raising for their own opposition. And they announce it on the sidelines of the march “Hurray! You’ve raised this many euros for peace!” That’s some good kinda driving the a**hats bat-sh*t crazy.

We could use more good like that. Wishing you well and safe and free.


Link to a story about the German towns: ThinkProgress article

Stay tuned for more on the Here’s a Quarter blog next week! As always, your thoughts and comments are welcome – they are moderated (I know – adulting again), so they may take a little while to appear, but I read them all and appreciate that you were here. Thank you!

Start Here

“Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.” ― Arthur Ashe

I saw that quote a few days ago. It settled into the center of my vision and sank gently through several layers of resistance until it rested on the soft center of my heart. 

The message made so much sense. 

simple rose“Start where you are.” Right here, right now. Not when you get to some mythical place, not when you’re better at x,y, or z, not when you lose twenty pounds. Right now. 

“Use what you have.” You’re good enough. You have enough. You know enough. Whatever it is, even if you’re not entirely sure what to do – You can figure it out. 

“Do what you can.” You have things you can do. It might not be everything to be done. You can do something. And it will be enough.

So fear-less. So excuse-less. So simple. So positive. A message I am grateful to hear, right here, right now. 

Wishing you simple, beautiful moments to reflect.


Stay tuned for more on the Here’s a Quarter blog next week! As always, your thoughts and comments are always welcome – they are moderated (I know – adulting again), so they may take a little while to appear, but I read them all and appreciate that you were here. Thank you!

My new story collection is now available: Dog Days . I’d love to hear your thoughts if you check it out!

The Plumber’s Tale – Part 2

Greetings, dear readers. This week we continue the tale of Plumber Gal vs. The Broken Float. (Sounds like a walloping mystery story, doesn’t it?… OK. Maybe not.) Anyway, we pick up where I left off at a score of 3-0, in favor of the stubbornly broken commode.

So a day or two passes after my third failed attempt and I am ready to try for pipe-wrench-mdredemption. The weekend arrives and I am determined to get this thing fixed. I call a friend – he spends some time rifling through a basement full of tools from oil rigs and he doesn’t have anything either. I strap on my boots and head to Hardware Mecca at the mall. I tell the fellow who comes to help that I need a big wrench for this plumbing nut on the bottom of the commode. He looks doubtful. The only open-end wrench big enough weighs about five pounds and it’s too long to fit in the space. And – by the way – costs as much as the toilet, so we’re not going there. He takes me back to the plumbing supplies and we find – TA-DA! – a pipe wrench that is flat and has a plastic protector on the jaws and only costs 6 bucks. To be sure, he takes it out of the package and we try it on the nut from the new assemblage that I was smart enough to bring with me. (As an aside, I am betting I am the only woman in the mall that day carrying a toilet part on her key ring. Points to me!) It grabs with a nice tight fit. Woo-hoo! I feel a surge of hope.

Just to be sure I have all the stuff I need, I also buy a set of three adjustable crescent wrenches, of which the largest will fit the job. I head home full of hope and anticipation.

So I get home and squeeze myself under the commode with the pipe wrench. As nicely as it fits – it doesn’t budge the thing. The corners on the nut are worn and the wrench keeps slipping. I try my new crescent wrench – I can’t get it close enough to the bottom of the tank to get a good grip. None of my nice new tools will work. If you’re keeping score: Plumber Gal – 0, Hardware Mecca – 2, Commode – 4.

Things are getting desperate. I reach into the tank and realize that if I really lean into it, I can turn the whole assembly – but the remains of the old arm prevent it from turning all the way around. It’s held on with screws, so I go back to the toolbox for a screwdriver. The first one I find and bring back is way too big. I dig around some more and find one that fits and pull off both screws. Nothing comes apart. Those were the screws to adjust the arm height. This is when I find the knob on the side that I can unscrew by hand and remove to take off the broken float arm. Finally! Continue reading

A DIY Commod-ity

Greetings, dear readers. As you know, my home life provides any number of puzzles to work out, and a few that have proven more of a challenge than I had planned on. There have been occasions when DIY becomes “why, oh why”. One such “interesting” challenge happened a while back and led me into the world of (oh dear) PLUMBING. It’s a tale of one woman, three pairs of pliers, five wrenches, two screwdrivers, one new ballcock assembly, one float ball, two float arms, and a hacksaw… Yes – really.

Here’s how it happened:

It started on a Wednesday – I think it was a Wednesday, or maybe not. But that doesn’t matter. What does matter is that I came home from work after a long day and realized that I really needed to pee. NOW. So I scurried into the house, dropped my keys and ran into the hallway bathroom to take care of business. Rush, flush, wash hands, pat dry… Much relieved and not suspecting any trouble, I then trotted back out to let my dogs play. It was shortly thereafter I realized that while that babbling brook sound was pleasant, it had no business coming from my hallway. This is when I learned that, while the commode flushed and the bowl refilled, the tank filled, and didn’t stop. It overflowed from the top and left about an inch of water on the floor that I had to splash through – in sock feet, no less – to fling myself at the base and turn off the water supply. It was then that I lifted off the top of the tank and saw that the plastic float arm had broken. Hmmm. I pulled up the flapper to get rid of the water in the tank, retrieved the bobbing ball, and set the top back on, thinking…

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Well, OK – I hang out in hardware stores enough to know you can buy a new float arm. No problem-o, right? Ha!

The first trip to the hardware store produced a metal float arm with nice screw threads on both ends. I bore it home triumphantly and picked up the ball. And this is where things got interesting… The original plastic arm had broken off inside the threads of the ball and couldn’t be removed. OK – so the ball had to be replaced, too. Still no big deal, right?

On my next (yes, next – two trips and counting) trip to the hardware store I bought a new ball. The new ball screwed onto the new arm and looked pretty spiffy. And then a look into the tank showed that the whole assemblage was waaaaay to long to fit in there. This was somewhat problematic, but not the worst part. On top of the problem with fit, the old assembly did not have a place to screw the metal rod into – the old plastic arm was integral and they apparently don’t make those kinds of valves anymore.

So here’s where we are – I have a broken toilet, parts that might work, but they don’t fit the assembly on there, and no way to attach them if they did. Commode – 2, Plumber Gal – 0.

This is also when I have the sinking realization that I am going to have to replace the entire flush assembly – the thing that sticks right through the bottom of the tank and connects to the water supply. I am going to have to actually DO PLUMBING. As they say among folks who know me, UH-oh…

I live with the dread for a few days and then I go back to the hardware store (trip #3 for those counting). I get the assembly I need that has a nice simple design, just a couple parts and a place to attach the float arm. In addition, it comes with a float arm that is much shorter than the one I first bought, so I have some hope of this working with the materials I have. Score! I get it home and wait a couple days until the mood is right and we’re all quite relaxed. I wear low-riding pants for the occasion. Continue reading

Good Boy

Greetings, dear readers. Here at HaQ we've been away from the keyboard this week. This sweet face is why:

This is Luke – 90 pounds of funny, crazy, mush-faced hound dog; best friend to his younger smaller siblings and my constant companion for over a decade. He really is that sweet. And we lost him this week.

There is no way to fill a 90-lb hole in your home, your life, your heart. You accept that it's there and sit with it a while. A hole that big doesn't happen without a lot of love, and though loss has taken our beloved boy, the love remains. He gave us that.

Good boy, Luke. Such a Good Boy.

Market Tetris

Greetings, dear readers! The blog is coming to you from the warm, easy, lazy days of July. The days are hot and the nights afford the simple pleasure of enjoying cool breeze on the porch with the dogs. I know that there are a world of things going on “out there”, in the greater world – and I’m happy to enjoy my little peaceable place.

2017-07-12 07.56.33Since signing on to the CSA at my local farmers market, my favorite summer game had been what I call “Market Tetris”  – I look at what the basket holds for the week, what I have in the pantry and then figure out the meals that can use it all, fitting my fresh goodies in and around what else I have, so that it all goes together. This also involves nibbling on the fresh produce to find out how strong the scallions are (VERY!) and what the basil tastes like (minty!) And trying to stare down a large yellow flying saucer of a pattypan squash… Then my kitchen assistant (Google – ha!) and I go to work.

Did you know you can roast spring onions in a hot oven with olive oil and a little salt and pepper and come out with a side dish so tasty you’re tempted to eat it right out of the pan? And that minty basil is wonderful in a quinoa salad with slices of market cucumbers and sweet young cabbage, dressed with a little rice vinegar and a squeeze of fresh lime? The pattypan is headed for a pan tonight.

Can’t wait to see what treasures are revealed in the next basket! Wishing you weekly treasures to enjoy.


Stay tuned for more on the Here’s a Quarter blog next week! As always, your thoughts and comments are always welcome – they are moderated (I know – adulting again), so they may take a little while to appear, but I read them all and appreciate that you were here. Thank you!

My new story collection is now available: Dog Days . I’d love to hear your thoughts if you check it out!

Celebrating July

Greetings, dear readers! HaQ is coming to you today from the happy shores of a midweek holiday. On the Fourth of July the US celebrates Independence Day, commemorating the events that led to the founding of a new nation. It’s a day for flags and fireworks, burgers and backyard cookouts, heart-raising music and home-happy kids. I’ve always found a certain joy in familiar songs and warm humid air, summer concerts on the river giving way to the thump and boom of beautiful showers of sparks, my face upturned with my neighbors’, all sharing the moment. Something in my heart says, “I love this place. I live here. I am rooted here and I root for it, too.”

While the nation celebrates independence, I find I am also leaning toward a concept that is both similar and different. InTERdependence. The residents of that new nation wanted to be free of the bonds of colonization, but they needed to depend on each other. They, and this nascent country, would not have survived otherwise. It’s the same now, though life is rather different (Can you imagine what the founders would have thought of the Internet?!) I can do what I do because others do the things I can’t. (Seriously – like plumbing… I could tell tales.)

Tomato basilI had first-hand evidence of ingenuity and interdependence parading across my counters a few days ago. I am participating in a ten week summer CSA at my local farmer’s market. CSA stands for community supported agriculture. Customers buy shares for a weekly portion of the goods that come in. The producers get a guaranteed income for their work, and everyone gets to eat like kings. To me, that’s the best of independence and interdependence wrapped up in one gorgeously dimpled heirloom tomato. I love the idea of supporting the farmers who grow my food, knowing where and how my food was grown, and making my community both more cohesive and more economically independent. Talk about the best of both worlds!

Wishing you a warm and wonderful 4th and much joy in your world.


Stay tuned for more on the Here’s a Quarter blog next week! As always, your thoughts and comments are always welcome – they are moderated (I know – adulting again), so they may take a little while to appear, but I read them all and appreciate that you were here. Thank you!

My new story collection is now available: Dog Days . I’d love to hear your thoughts if you check it out!

Just Right

Greeting, dear readers! It’s the evening of another beautiful summer day and – even though it’s not much different from lots of other nice days – I am feeling particularly blessed. This day was just right.

The morning was cool with enough dew to keep my garden pots happy, even though I 2017-06-26 08.42.36went out with a little extra water to top them up. The cucumber  has gone from a tiny four-inch seedling to a flowering vine in a week.  In a day or two that flower will give way to fruit. Now that’s what I call “fast food”! I’ll look forward to enjoying them with the squash and tomatoes as summer rounds to fall.
The rest of the day was similar: I spent my work day nudging forward several projects at an easy pace. Nobody got stressed and everyone went in the right direction. I even got time for a good lunch, chicken salad and veggies, packed at home, REMEMBERED, and enjoyed. There were interesting questions. There was enough time. And there was enough coffee and enough patience to go around. I got a sweet message from a family member in the middle of the day. Lagniappe!

In the evening I came home to happy pets with plenty of time to take the dogs for a walk and check the garden again before everyone got dinner. The air was light and cool and the dishes are done and it was the kind of day where nothing really happens, but it’s perfect anyway. Every small thing went right,  it had the simple beauty of a sparrow’s back – just brown from a distance, but soft and speckled and luciously detailed up close.

There is something to be said for a moment of complete contentment in the middle of all the stuff going on all around. Whatever else goes on, the cat still comes for his lap-time, and cucumber tendrils curl upwards in sweet spirals, and the dogs will look at you as if you are delivering the Nobel prize when you give them a treat. Life is Good. Just right.


Stay tuned for more on the Here’s a Quarter blog next week! As always, your thoughts and comments are always welcome – they are moderated (I know – adulting again), so they may take a little while to appear, but I read them all and appreciate that you were here. Thank you!

My new story collection is now available: Dog Days . I’d love to hear your thoughts if you check it out!